Look At The Helpers: Urban Yogis

by Elizabeth King on April 16, 2013

This year we’ve seen too much of a particular Fred Rogers quote.

That’s almost unthinkable, right? Too much Mr. Rogers?

But there’s a specific quote that keeps popping up all over Facebook and Twitter because it’s very likely one of the best thoughts on traumatic news coverage one can dig up:

“When I was a boy and I would see scary things in the news, my mother would say to me, ‘Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping.’”

The thing is, we’re seeing too much of these words because they’ve been increasingly warranted.

Aurora.

Sandy Hook.

Boston.

I want to start to look for helpers outside of immediate tragedies, though. People are doing good; they are changing lives, intervening early on or, even better, before anything bad happens.

It’s good for the soul to take time every day to look for these people.

They’re inspiring. It brings peace.

Take five minutes and check out what Urban Yogis is doing in Queens with kids in juvenile detention centers. It might bring hope.

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Three Points on Reading

by Elizabeth King on January 3, 2013

Overheard

kiwi bookshelfI’ve been doing a lot less talking lately and a lot more listening. I recently heard a friend of mine, Akil, remark that he was sitting down to read a real book because he wasn’t sure that his young sons knew he was reading (rather than playing Angry Birds or watching movies) on his iPad. I thought this was brilliant–but also an indicator of what is likely a big problem I hadn’t thought about. Do children wonder if all those grownups on the beach are reading books or watching television?

This got me thinking: how much has the identifiable/observable reading of books decreased? Even if the exact same number is actually being read, do we knowingly witness reading like we used to? We love to talk about how more books are being published than ever before, but are kids seeing us read them? Parents, is this on your radar?

Sharing

If you’re over a certain age, you likely have bookshelves filled with books. Your friends probably do, too. I don’t know about you, but I love to check out my friends’ shelves, see what they’re reading, occasionally borrow a copy of this or that, and, at the very least, chat about what we’ve read. Have you ever picked up someone else’s eReader and scrolled through her library?

I haven’t. To do so would feel… invasive, like digging through someone’s Documents folder.

Personal Habits

Maybe I’m not as serious a reader as I’d like to imagine, but I have found that, for me, out of sight often equals out of mind on this front. I don’t have shelf space here at the cottage and I’ve found that one of the consequences of that is that I have to remind myself that if I pick up my iPad or Kindle I can read a book. I have dozens of books I bought last year, several of which I’d completely forgotten about. It seems I lump those eReading devices in as extensions of my other computers and phone and don’t think of them, instead, as books.

Since reading is as much a cultural value and catalyst for dialogue—across the scale of cocktail conversation to major anthropological inquiry—as it is a pleasurable pastime, how do we maintain it’s presence or relevance when the physical object that largely propels it is disappearing? We’re losing the biggest prompt to reading: the book.

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Listening, or What I Did Over My Summer Vacation

October 26, 2012

Zombies Aren’t Real You may have noticed that it’s been fairly quiet on Stay Out Of School over the recent months. It all started back at Memorial Day—which you may remember instead as the start of the Zombie Apocalypse, kicked off by the infamous Miami Face Eating incident. I was actually in South Beach that [...]

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Life Imitating the Lillian Vernon Catalogue: Some Thoughts On Kids and Entrepreneurship

August 18, 2012

The other day as I was pulling into my parents’ neighborhood I was flagged down by some kids at a lemonade stand. “Hey! Come buy some lemonade!” I actually heard them through my rolled up windows. They were shouting like kids do, as though it were coming right out of their spines, so I gave [...]

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Your High School Student Can’t Divide

April 5, 2012

The other morning a friend dropped me a New York Times article by Michael Ellsberg (author of The Education of Millionaires). It’s pretty typical for people to shoot me Ellsberg’s work, because, hey! I write a blog called Stay Out Of School, so I must be totally down with this drop-out-and-start-up thing. In this particular [...]

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The Apology Craze is Killing Our Kids

March 28, 2012

Let’s tie together some stuff in the news. I want to to share with you two snippets of articles I found this week while traveling. This one, from Ad Age, an interview with Vincent Kartheiser of Mad Men: Ad Age: Well, you’re not only loyal to Don in the role of Pete, but in real [...]

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Developing Willpower One Crush At A Time

February 23, 2012

When I was around eighteen years old I was hanging out by the pool with The Boy Who’d Always Been Out Of Reach. You know the one. I thought this guy was so far out of my league he may as well have been Brad Pitt in Legends of the Fall. While I still have [...]

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I Voted. There, I Said It.

January 31, 2012

(Or, Don’t Hate Me Because I’m a Conservative) I voted in Palm Beach County today. For some of you, the needle may have already skidded across the metaphorical record. I’ve already seen the gears turning on the faces of my friends this week….. Voting… voting… there’s voting going on? OH! THE REPUBLICAN PRIMARY! Then they [...]

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Dogs, Frat Boys, and Leadership

November 28, 2011

For anyone who knows me personally, it should come as no surprise that I spent a portion of my holiday weekend tucked in to the December/January ’12 issue of Garden and Gun magazine. This issue’s cover model is a very handsome black Labrador retriever named Deke, a hunting dog trained at the famous Wildrose Kennels [...]

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It’s About our Values, Stupid

November 16, 2011

I have had it. This conversation about the value of college has gone absolutely off the rails. I’m so ticked this morning I’m having trouble writing coherently. I guess this makes sense, because anger is rooted in fear, and I have finally become terrified for the future of education in the United States. I found [...]

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